By Dr. Saleh As-Saleh
Excerpted from the book Hajj & Tawhid
 
    This is a journey that was taken by Prophets and Messengers before you. Those 
    who take the path of the Prophets magnify the Tawhid 
    of Allah and His House. There are those, however, who come to perform Hajj 
    and their hearts are attached to other than Allah. They invoke the dead and 
    the righteous, whether present or absent. This is the opposite of Tawhid, 
    it is shirk no matter what they call it because it is setting up rivals besides 
    Allah. So, free your intention from any kind of devotion to other than Allah. 
    Repent and come with a sincere heart submitting to Allah remembering what 
    Ibrahim and his son Isma'il said when 
    they were raising the foundations of Allah's House, the Ka'bah: 
    
 
    Oh our Rabb! Accept from us and make us submit to You in Islam and show us our Manasik [all the rites of Hajj] and accept our repentance.
[Noble Quran 2:128]
 
    You are set to depart and you may or may not return to your home. Make this 
    journey to Allah's House as Allah wants it. Think of the next journey that 
    is surely coming, the one that leads to the meeting of Allah, Most High. This 
    raises questions like: What did I prepare for that Day? Am I following Allah's 
    Commands? Am I a follower of the Sunnah 
    of Muhammad (peace be upon him)? Do I really know Allah? Am I a believer that 
    Allah is above the seven heavens over His 'Arsh as He has stated in His Book 
    and as His Messengers have asserted? Am I a believer that believes Allah has 
    a true Face that suits His Majesty as He has affirmed in the Quran and as 
    has been affirmed by His Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)? Am I believer 
    in all of Allah's Names, Attributes and Actions which He has affirmed in His 
    Book and by His Messengers? Or do I just take and accept by my doubt, rejecting, 
    or distorting (through figurative interpretation of His Attributes) the meanings 
    of Allah's Attributes and Actions? And invoke not any other ilah [god] along 
    with Allah, La ilaha ila huwa [none has the right to be worshipped but He], 
    Everything will perish save His Face. His is the Decision, and to Him [all] 
    shall be returned. [Al-Qasas 88]
 
    Know, may Allah's Mercy be upon you, that when you reach the Miqat 
    there is another Miqat that is still to come. It is the Miqat (appointed meeting) 
    on the Day of Resurrection:
 
    Say [O Muhammad]: [Yes] verily, those of old, and those of later times. All will surely be gathered together for an appointed Meeting of a known Day.
[Noble Quran 56:49-50]
 
    When you start saying the Talbiyah 
    remember the Command of Allah to Prophet Ibrahim:
 
    And proclaim to mankind the Hajj. They will come to you on foot and on every lean camel, they will come from deep and distant [wide] mountain highways [to perform Hajj].
[Noble Quran 22:27]
The Talbiyah you make is in response to Prophet Ibrahim's proclamation to visit Allah's house of worship. Allah is Most Great.
 
    Upon entering Mecca remember that you 
    are in the Secure Sanctuary:
 
    Have We not established for them a secure sanctuary [Mecca], to which are brought fruits of all kinds, a provision from Ourselves, but most of them know not.
[Noble Quran 28:57]
Let one commit himself to repentance, having a good opinion of Allah, hoping that Allah will grant him security from His Punishment.
 
    You will enter one of the gates of al-Masjid 
    al-Haram. Then there you are before the magnificent House of Allah, 
    Most High, the Ka'bah. Now you see what you hoped to see for a long time. 
    Thank Allah for making this possible and hope that He, the Mighty and Majestic, 
    will grant you the greatest reward of seeing His Majestic Face on the Day 
    of Resurrection. This thankfulness is not just in saying "alhamdulillah," 
    but also by obeying Allah while on Hajj 
    and for the rest of your life.
 
    You start your Tawaf (circling the Ka'bah) 
    knowing that it is a great time for magnifying Allah the Exalted. Remember 
    Him by His Names, Attributes, and Actions. Also while in Tawaf try to reflect 
    upon the time when Prophet was prevented from doing the same thing you are 
    doing today. Then think about what he did in clearing out the site from the 
    symbols signifying worship to other than Allah! All idols were demolished. 
    Busy yourself with Du'a. Ask Allah, the 
    Most Great, to make you hold to the correct belief and Path of the salaf and 
    make you die on it. Ask Allah to save you from all forms of shirk and Bid'ah.
 
    While in Sa'i (walking between As-Safa 
    and Al-Marwah), contemplate on Hajar, 
    the mother of Isma'il, when she asked her husband Ibrahim (peace be upon him), 
    "Did Allah order you to do this (leaving her and her baby Isma'il in Mecca)? 
    He said: "Yes." Her great response was: "Then He (Allah) will not neglect 
    us!" Think about this great dependence upon Allah when you are in the Sa'i 
    walking the same path which Hajar took in search for water and for the means 
    of life around the mounts of Safa and Marwah. Think about her endurance, perseverance 
    and trust in Allah. The Sa'i exemplifies the strong belief that we are in 
    need for the One Who Sustains and Provides, Allah, the Exalted. Think about 
    Ibrahim's invocation on his way homeward to Palestine:
 
    O our Rabb! I have made some of my offspring to dwell in a valley with no cultivation, by Your Sacred House [the Ka'bah at Mecca]; in order, O our Rabb, that they may offer prayers perfectly, so fill some hearts among men with love towards them, and [O Allah] provide them with fruits so that they may give thanks.
[Noble Quran 14:37]
Men and fruits came to Mecca from many places. Ibrahim (peace be upon him) returned to visit and later to share with his son Isma'il the noble task of raising the foundations of the Ka'bah.
 
    The standing on 'Arafat is the Hajj. 
    The crowds should remind you of the Day of Resurrection. Humble yourself to 
    Allah, manifest your 'Ubudiyyah to Him Alone through Du'a, 
    sincere intention and strong determination to free yourself from the sins 
    of the past and to build up a commitment to rush for doing what is good. Think 
    of becoming a better person when you return. Rid yourself of false pride and 
    showing off because it may ruin what you may gain on this day.
 
    You gathered the pebbles and you are about to embark on stoning the Jamarat. 
    This is an act of obedience and remembrance of Allah, Most Magnificent. The 
    Prophet (peace be upon him) said: When you cast the small pebbles (i.e. at 
    the Jamarat), it will be a light for you on the Day of Resurrection. [Reported 
    by At-Bazzar in his Zawa'id (p.113) on the authority of Ibn Abbas. This Hadith 
    is reported by Sheikh Al-Albani (may Allah have mercy upon him) in Silsilat 
    al-Ahadith as-Sahihah. V. 6 Hadith 2515.]
 
    When performing the sacrifice remember the saying of Allah:
 
    It is neither their meat not their blood that reaches Allah, but it is your devotion that reaches Him.
[Noble Quran 22-23]
 
    When you have completed you Hajj, do not think that the remembrance of Allah 
    has ended. Listen to what Allah says:
 
    So when you have accomplished your Manasik (i.e. the rites of Hajj) remember Allah as you remember your forefathers or with far more remembrance.
[Noble Quran 2:200]
Special Note: If you go to Medina then the objective of your visit should be according to the Sunnah and not Bid'ah. Your intention is to set on a journey to visit the Prophet's mosque and not his grave. When you reach the mosque and your pray upon entering then you may go to the grave and say, "As-salamu 'alayka ayyuhan-nabiyy." The position of the scholars regarding visiting the gravesites by women can be summarized as follows:
disliked but not unlawful
Allowable, if done infrequently. If a woman is known as being unable to behave herself within the limits of Shari'ah at the gravesite, then she should be prevented from visiting the graves
forbidden
A grave sin
Many scholars state that women visiting the Prophet's mosque may pronounce the salaam upon the Prophet (peace be upon him) away from the gravesite since it is confirmed by many Ahadith that the salaam is related to the Prophet (peace be upon him) wherever the person may be. The Prophet (peace be upon him) is in a state of barzakh (as state of existence that begins with death and lasts until the Day of Resurrection,) the nature of which is only known to Allah, Most High.
[Ash-Sharh-ul-Mumti' V5. pp. 475 -478]
The same salaam is also mentioned when you pass by Abu Bakr and 'Umar without innovations like:
Visiting the grave of the Prophet (peace be upon him) before praying in the mosque.
Making Du'a facing the grave
Seeking nearness to Allah by means of the Prophet (peace be upon him). This is a prohibited form of Tawassul. (method of communicating or getting close to Allah)
Seeking intercession from the Prophet (peace be upon him).
Placing the hands upon the grills around the room containing the Prophet's grave to seek blessings, etc."' (Refer to Sh. Al-Albani's book Manasik al-Hajj wal 'Umrah for more details.
Remember the Prophet's (peace be upon him) sayings:
"Do not make my grave an Eid (place of celebration)"
[Abu Dawud, Ahmed]
"May Allah's curse be on the Jews and the Christian for taking the graves of their Prophets as places of worship"
[Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawud, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasa'i, Ibn Majah]
"Those before you took the graves of their Prophets as places of worship. Do not take graves as places of worship for verily I forbid you to do so."
[Muslim]
 
    The journey is not meant to gain any material reward. It is a selfless sacrifice 
    solely for Allah, Most Majestic. It demands true love and fear of Him. It 
    should be performed with full consciousness of one's heart, with full humility 
    and submission to Allah. It should not be thought of as a tourist-type excursion 
    or be performed as mere physical rites. It develops sincerity, piety, humility, 
    self-control, sacrifice, and true knowledge of the meaning of submission and 
    obedience to Allah, Most High. It helps the pilgrim to be a better person 
    who is devoted to Allah in every aspect of his life.
